If you ask Which one is the greater motivator, love or anger and Why?
I will definitely bet on Love Motivation. I believe we are motivated on an individual basis by that which we have assigned the most value to. If we are controlled primarily by love,(especially the love of God) that will motivate us to show and respond with more love. If we have a nature leaning toward hate and/or anger, or we have allowed circumstances to make anger the controlling factor in our life, we will be motivated to respond most often in anger.
Love invokes many emotions
One of which is anger actually. Nothing causes more rage than someone deliberately doing something bad to someone you love. Except in extreme cases when it has to be done, in which case instead of anger, there’s grief. But anger is less deep and quite effective, sometimes, channeled correctly. You know what other emotion is very powerful? Excitement! That’s why when you are exercising and you hear the best part of the song it gets you hyped, and you exercise harder. Like, when you are running while listening to your favourite song, and when some line comes up with which you are emotionally connected, it’s like you just pressed turbo. Or when you are listening to a slow deep dub step song and the bass drops, you suddenly find the strength to do an extra 150 lbs press.
Love Motivation gives reason to live
What keeps one motivated to continue loving life…
- The countless, beautiful experiences I have had, and the many more things I have yet to discover and experience.
- The remarkable and inspiring people I have met, and the many more people I have yet to meet and get to know.
- The books I’ve read, the songs I’ve listened to, the films I’ve watched, all the art I’ve witnessed, and so much more that I have yet to read, listen, see, and revel in.
- The difficulties and challenges I have struggled with, some I have overcome, some I’m still working on. How stronger I have become than yesterday, than last year, than five years ago. And how much more challenges there are that I could work hard for and try to conquer. The progress that I could still make.
- The life I was given by chance, and how I could work hard and make a life for myself to not waste what has been given to me.
Being able to look back and forgiving myself for the wrongs I have done, for the opportunities that I chose not to take, and for the time I have wasted, and at the same time appreciating for the effort I have made and the lessons I have learned that has made me who I am today, all of these make me motivated to continue loving life.
Because in doing so, I am able to then imagine what lies forward. How I could maximize what is still left, make sure to not repeat the things that had made me disappointed with myself, to keep challenging myself and believing that I am able to face more, and that I deserve to keep improving.
All these make me motivated to continue loving life. And in loving life, I am able to keep it a habit to not waste even one moment, to not give in to excuses, complacency, mediocrity, and ungratefulness, and instead revel in this one shot I have at life.
My motivation to live this life comes from what I do and how it impacts the world.
A life is worth living when you are doing something good for the world with love, joy, and peace.
In the words of Martin Luther King Jr., “If a man is called to be a street sweeper, he should sweep streets even as Michelangelo painted, or Beethoven composed music or Shakespeare wrote poetry. He should sweep streets so well that all the hosts of heaven and earth will pause to say, here lived a great street sweeper who did his job well.”
And you can perform such a wonderful job only when you love your job.
Sometimes, we are too self-centered and we live all for ourselves. We treat people around us as a means to achieve our ends of life. We find ourselves to be in the center of the universe and expect the world to revolve around us.
Unfortunately, we are seldom happy with such mindset because most people actually think in this way. They are all interested in their own welfare, success, and prosperity and they too wish to use others for achieving their own ends.
Here comes the contradiction which exposes our hypocrisy.
While we don’t mind using others for our own sake, we resent very much when others use us as a ladder to achieve their own successes.
We feel aggrieved, angry when we are used by others and soon we develop hatred towards such people who use us. We lose motivation in life since hatred (a negative feeling) and motivation (a positive feeling) can hardly exist together.
Sometimes, we are selfless and we try to help others in the hope that they too would reciprocate the same and/or appreciate and acknowledge our effort.
However, most people, instead of acknowledging your selfless service, consider this their own achievement and entitlement. They don’t even thank you and that demotivates you and breaks your heart.
It is only when what you do is in tune of your own calling and also the calling of the world, a magic happens.
What you do fulfills you as well as fulfills the world.
The world thanks you for what you do and you thank the world for giving you the opportunity to do what you love to do.
You remain motivated and vibrant naturally like the waves of the sea which never stop and keep moving without any external force or desire.
Life as we see it
Everyone is searching for a magical syrup which can enhance their motivation daily and boost them to proceed with their task.
I am not a successful celebrity, nor a powerful person today, but sooner or later i will be holding such position.But today i want to share something with you which can help you throughout your life.
Motivation can’t be gained or served to you on a regular basis, but to achieve your high aspirational goals, you must need to retain a motivated personality with a positive attitude towards everything. To be able to do so, one thing is very importent, DISCIPLINE.
You can be motivated for 10 month in a year, but that’s not enough, you can’t afford to waste 2 useful month of your life . So you need to be disciplined .
Apart from being disciplined, another very importent for being motivated all the time is showing PERSEVERANCE towards your goal.
A mere piece of rock can’t become a million dollar scripture in a day or two, it will require a lot of time to get the best out of yourself. Similarly, one can’t get a hold medal in any tournament without practicing day and night with all their efforts.
But DISCIPLINE and PERSEVERANCE is not enough , one must also have a POSITIVE ATTITUDE towards everything. You are not supposed to loose your confidence during your journey to achieve your goals. You should approach every task with a positive thought and always try to neglect the negative part of the output.
I am assuring all of you, You guys will never feel demotivated again in your life if you just follow these THREE GOLDEN RULES
Love Motivation is greater among all
People makes decision based on emotion. When you are in love with someone your mind is in positive state. You want to help your partner, build better relationship by doing something meaningful for both of you. This makes your state better and people decides to take action. When you see these situation, you will feel that this person is highly motivated. It is absolutely true and if you understand the mechanism of how people make certain decision, you will also understand that motivation is not just driven by love. It’s the how you control your state and emotions to make better decisions.
How to Motivate someone with Love?
ou are his motivation, you have that powerful ability to do that by being yourself and loving yourself. You are his and everyone’s motivation by seeing the best in him rather than focusing on his failures including yours.
You are the motivating energy that is taking the time off when needed to replenish by setting boundaries to his negative head space by blocking whatever is dragging him down. You are the powerful individual, by seeing the best in others, you give other’s the wings to fly. You trust in your own ability to be the best person you can be.
This is what motivation is by living it, we set standards for others ? What we are failing to see ourselves and others and this life that what it is today. We have taken a series of photographs for our albums and cannot let go of those belief that today is a new day and it is not what it was yesterday ? Our past pictures that we have saved in our memory is beating ourselves and everyone is inhibiting progress to enjoy life at this moment.
This is exactly what it means by living in this moment ? The moment a person doesn’t conform to our expectations , we have taken another picture and stored and crossed the heads out based on the Good, Bad and the Ugly, not able to understand and accept that we are all human with flaws and we all live in the state of the heart/mind (Mondo rock). Therefore, these pictures are obsolete, not a true representation of this current day ?
we might have been the best person yesterday and an idiot today ? doesn’t matter that we take a leap of faith understanding these facts, applying that to everyone and every situation in our lives = surrendering to the unknown? When we live this way we can see beyond not programmed to see what we want to see?
Appreciate him/her in his strengths. Correct him/her in his mistakes. Do not discriminate against him/her in his flaws, because none of us is a perfect couple to our partners, we’ll make a mistake, too. But, if those mistakes are always been doing, then we shouldn’t tend to tolerate the same wrong again, we need to cultivate a right way of dealing with our partner’s characteristics. So that, they’ll learn about the things they have done. And for that, they’ll be encouraged.
And also, if you love a person, the way to motivate them is to discipline them.
Love Motivational Quotes
“My love, together we can do anything!”
“My SweetLove, you are destined for greatness and you have my full-support to help you achieve whatever it is you desire to achieve!”
“Honey, never forget that in this Life we share together all things are possible with God Almighty! And, I’ll help 🙂
Last but not least I would say: “No matter what happens in this Life together forever be assured I would give my Life to save your’s … and be happy to do it!”
“Be strong and of good courage, fear not for the Lord they God is with you always and so am I in Spirit!
There are a few things:
Realize how good you have it. Think of all the the potnetial you have here, the opportunity, as compared to someone who’s – at this very moment – five years old, looking for water for her family (a family now suffering, not only because of lack of water, because of the quality of it; so if your journey, rough in itself, does yield water it’s very probable that it ends up adding gasoline to the fire of their suffering). Now, whatever you’re not excited about, was just brougt into a new light, wasn’t it…?
Get real about what actually produces success. The truth is, a little every day is many, many, many times more powerful than a lot today, done in a manner which exhausted, bored or stressed you out. For several reasons; 1. You will have built a bad relationship to take action, generally and on that specific thing. 2. Momentum happens over time, and 1 day isn’t.
Listen to music/watch a movie which inspires.
This is simple. If you can’t do this, you really have to go out and seek help from someone (and I say that with love). If you don’t know a movie, google “most inspiring movie”. If you don’t know the music, google that. Music tips: Vangelis – 1492, Conquest of paradise (movie soundtrack).
Get around people. Get around reasonably good vibes. Like, go to a café/restaurant/library (if your library actually has cool, relaxed people in it). Go there and study or whatever. It will help, whatever you currently believe about it.